My daughter brought home this note from school today:
Dear Parents,We have been having a problem with children's snacks disappearing. We have discussed this with the class, but the problem continues. We will not have snack anymore. Please have your child eat a big breakfast or bring something to eat in the gym before school.Are you serious?! No snacks? So, from 7:30am to 12:15pm..... nothing? Ok, I know they aren't going to starve to death, but does this seem fair?
In Kristen's words, "someone is stealing snacks!" I can't say I'm completely surprised, considering that for the first two weeks of school Kristen's chapstick and hand lotion continually disappeared from her desk. We finally had Kristen bring them home and leave them. But still, how is it that someone is stealing the children's snacks daily and
no one ever sees? I had to resist the urge to say to Kristen, "well that's not really fair that the whole class is being punished, is it?" And instead talk to her about why someone might steal food. Maybe I was deluded by Kristen's "perfect" Kindergarten class, but I really didn't think she would have to deal with something like this at school. Is she going to have to guard her pencils and crayons next? Is she going to hesitate before leaving her desk to sharpen a pencil or get a kleenex? What's next? Mugging in the hallways? Ok, not really, but.... really?? I guess I'm just upset because once again, I can't do anything about this. I don't know what's going on for 8 hours of Kristen's day,
every day. What goes on in Kristen's class with her classmates has
nothing to do with me! I know this is just one of the ways I need to seriously
let go. I just have to trust that the school and the teachers can handle this, even if they don't seem to be handling it the way I want them to. I have to hope that when Kristen learns about the six pillars of character in school (one of them being "honesty"), she really listens and understands. And I have to pray that the children around her are listening and learning, too.